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01-12-2008 03:15 AM  
I work in the industry and I am not sure the "answer" to this one.

A wine store has a wine bar where they serve btg etc. You can also select bottles from the shelf and pay an $8.00 corkage to drink it there. How would you tip?

I know I usually over-tip, industry habit, but what would you guys do?
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01-12-2008 11:50 AM  
In a bar situation, I usually tip a buck a drink if it's not too crowded. At a Wine Bar, I'd do the same. Always good to tip a little more and get that extra attention/oz pour.
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01-12-2008 03:48 PM  

Tough to answer without actually seeing the place.  To me the more it presents as a wine bar the more I'd want to tip normally (for example Ferry Plaza Wine Merchant).  The more it looks like a wine store the less inclined to tip normally I would be.

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01-12-2008 09:10 PM  
Are you asking how to tip BTG? Or the bottle with the $8 corkage? BTG, a buck is fine imo. For the bottle I'd be inclined to leave five bucks or so.
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01-12-2008 11:53 PM  
If it's BTG at a bar, it's generally best to tip the bartender $50-100 at the outset and then drink free the rest of the night.
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01-13-2008 04:14 PM  
Eric's practice sounds good to me too.
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01-15-2008 09:20 PM  
Under normal circumstances, probably $1/drink.  If they keep the wine bar open longer just for me or something like that, probably 25% of the total cost.
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01-15-2008 09:24 PM  
Sorry for the confusion in the question. I was asking specifically about purchasing a bottle from them and paying the $8 corkage.
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01-15-2008 09:35 PM  

For me, it would depend on the service.  Since it is a bottle you question, did they open it for you and disappear or were they attentive, circling back and re-pouring when apporpriate?  Did it require decanting?

My range would be 5 - 20% of the bottle price based on the above (assuming the bottle price was not marked up out of reason).  I follow the same guidelines when BYOB'ing.  IMHO, if the server provided good service, they should be recognized regardless of where the bottle was purchased. 

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01-31-2008 09:53 PM  
Posted By Daniel Bailey on 01/12/2008 3:48 PM

Tough to answer without actually seeing the place.  To me the more it presents as a wine bar the more I'd want to tip normally (for example Ferry Plaza Wine Merchant).  The more it looks like a wine store the less inclined to tip normally I would be.

Exactly.  If it was a retail shop I wouldn't tip at all.  If it is a wine bar it would depend on the service and whether or not I will return.  I have no problem at all of stiffing a server if I don't get service  (I mean like maybe once in the past decade).  If the service is good and the bill is small (like under $30) I'll tip 30%+.
 
Jason...  let me ask you this question:  In a fine-dining restaurant that has a special person for just the wines (aka sommelier),  what percentage of the people/parties leave a tip specifically for that wine person?  Do people seed the wine person out when they leave to give a tip directly?
 
 

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01-31-2008 10:00 PM  
When I'm concerned that the tip won't be shared, I try to give it directly and have been known to hand it to the bus person when the wait staff was than less average.   I figure if they aren't paying attention to the guests, they most likely aren't paying much attention to the rest of the staff either.


In Vegas, the tipping guide says "the more you win, the more you should share'. Doesn't give any advice if you've lost your A$$
Not my problem as I don't gamble, but I thought it amusing.

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02-01-2008 10:09 AM  

But what should you tip, if you've already been charged corkage? I think that's his question.... Just treat it like a tax? Tip on the price of the bottle and disregard that you already had to pay corkage?

I would tend to tip less than 20% when a corkage is involved (depending what the corkage actually is)..... since that corkage fee is normally the handling fee on the bottle, and cleaning of the glassware, etc. So you are only really tipping for the guy to pour the wine into the glass...
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02-01-2008 12:08 PM  
At a store where you are already purchasing a bottle at retail PLUS corkage? Sorry. Maybe a buck...
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07-06-2008 04:15 PM  
I'm new here but own a combination retail wine shop and wine bar. We have about 350 wines on retail shelves and our wine bar area takes up about 35% of the total retail floor space. We seat 17 at a bar+3 tables and serve cheese pairings, pannini, salami & hummus in addition to a weekly wine tasting flight, 8-10 other wines by the tasting pour (or multiple pours) and customers may purchase bottles that we pour (with no corkage fee). We provide information sheets on the flights and as much one-on-one tasting help/information as a guest wishes. It is not uncommon for one of our staff to spend 15-30 minutes with a party discussing the wines, regions, wineries, technique, etc.. This business model has become more and more popular in this area over the past couple of years. The only differences between us and a pure wine bar are the retail shelves and the fact that a rather odd license condition limits us to pouring only 2 ounces at a time (though we can pour multiple 2-oz pours). I guess we'd best be described as a wine TASTING bar within a wine shop.

My question/dilemma is this: We use a restaurant/bar-type guest check for wine bar guests (one with a tip line on it). Tipping ranges from zero to 20%+ on the bill, sometimes even including a tip on bottles purchased following the wine bar service. In other forums I've found people who think tipping in this environment is unnecessary and that the tip line check is an insult. I really don't understand that position and thought I'd see if I could revive this topic to get some feedback.

I certainly think tipping on retail bottles purchased is unnecessary and have considered presenting two separate checks (one a standard register receipt with no tip-line) to make that clear. But how does a guest spend an hour or more at a wine tasting bar (receiving free bread and crackers + lots of educational information and conversation from an experienced person) and not feel a tip is deserved?? What is the standard in similar establishments where you are? Do they use a guest check with tip-line for tasting service?? How do you decide whether to tip?
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07-06-2008 05:22 PM  
A wine store with a tasting bar is nothing other than any other store that lets people "try before you buy".  And unlike most stores this kind of store charges to try before you buy. 
 
Here goes nothin'...  AGAIN!
 
A person wants to buy a car.  He goes to a car store and is approached by a salesperson.  He shows you around all the different cars answering as many questions that you want to throw at him.  You ask if you can test drive a car.  The salesperson takes you on a test drive. You decide to buy the car.  Should you tip the salesperson for his knowledge helping you pick out the the car?
 
Another scenario:  you you tell the salesperson that you want to think about buying it and leave.  Should you have tipped him then for his time and knowledge?
 
Let's say you return and buy the car.  Should you tip the salesperson then?  He did spend a couple of hours with you helping you decide what to buy.
 
Or how about this one:  After the salesperson has spent an hour letting you pick his brain you go home and buy it off the internet.  Should go back and tip the salesperson then? 
 
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A person wants to buy a bottle of wine.  He goes to a wine store and is approached by a salesperson.  He shows you around all the different bottles answering as many questions that you want to throw at him.  You ask if you can taste a wineThe salesperson pours you a glass. You decide to buy the bottle.  Should you tip the salesperson for his knowledge helping you pick out the the wine?
 
Another scenario:  you you tell the salesperson that you want to think about buying it and leave.  Should you have tipped him then for his time and knowledge?
 
Let's say you return and buy the bottle.  Should you tip the salesperson then?  He did spend a couple of hours with you helping you decide what to buy.
 
Or how about this one:  After the salesperson has spent an hour letting you pick his brain you go home and buy it off the internet.  Should go back and tip the salesperson then?  
 
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I understand that tipping is the protocall at restaurants.  I am a very generous tipper.  I do believe the system is not a good one.  It is the restaurants business to treat people in the best possible manner whether a tip is involved or not.  The reward that a server gets for giving good service is the he gets to keep his job.  Why should he expect to get a tip for doing his job?  The restaurant is paying him.
 
If a tip is part of the deal then I think the Europeans have the right idea.  They add a set percentage tip to the bill.  The customer has to pay it.  It is flawed though IMO in that I think they should add it to the cost of the individual dishes on the menu.  It is a hidden charge no matter how you look at it even if they have the gratuity % printed in fine print somewhere on the menu.
 
For goodness sake!  We are all smart people!  Do the job that you have signed up to do at the wage you agreed to.  Tipping is crazy IMO.  Half the time it isn't the service that women or men pay for.   To Improve Performance...  LOL!  A guy can get a big tip from a lady if he has a tight ass.  A gal can get a big tip from a man if she has bib tits.  Is that fair to the rest of us?  And not only that if one does tip a server for good performance that server has to divide up that tip and the server at the other table who gave terrible service gets their share (and vice versa).
 
First, please excuse my non-PC use of gender above.  Second, you can throw anything at me that you want.  I have turned on my force-field shield for the moment and you'll never get through that! 
 
 

 
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07-06-2008 06:04 PM  
As usual Davidn has some good points.
 
For me there seems to be a distinction between being a "wine tasting bar" within a wine shop and a typical retail wine establishment.  If you are charging people for tasting pours, ie I'm tasting 8 Pinot Noirs and paying $15 (?) for the flight then I would definitely tip for wine service.  To me the "service" part is the distinction as I tip for good service.
 
Another example is a retail store where they are pouring wines (no wine bar inside or this type of service).  There might be crackers or something else but in that instance it is as Davidn describes, I buy a bottle but I probably won't tip the salesperson even if they provide a lot of insight along the way.  Here I'm not sitting at a wine bar or buying a bottle that is opened on site.
 


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07-06-2008 06:55 PM  
I get that the wine tasting is an extension of the wine shop but our state requires a separate license for people to taste the wine in the shop and the health department requires restaurant-like equipment and build-out for the food service we provide as part of the tasting experience. We probably spent $75,000 to build the tasting and food area of the shop. Now it seems like some of our customers feel all of that is somehow part of the 'standard' tasting experience they used to get at a wine shop that would set up a table one day a week and let people taste wines for a nominal fee. Our state allows us to pour three one-ounce tastes per person per day FREE.  We never charge for that (as in when a customer is looking to buy a bottle we happen to have open at the bar). BUT we are REQUIRED to charge for anything beyond that since the state considers us a modified bar when we do flights and by-the-pour service. 
 
I'm going down hard on the idea that we are somehow not the same as a wine bar when we are providing the same experience.

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07-07-2008 09:46 AM  
The whole concept of tipping is really quite illogical.

Unless you are a regular at a restaurant, it really is not in your economic interest to tip the waiter at all. Since you tip at the end of the meal, you have already received the fine (or poor) service, and have no obligation to tip. Why not simply pay the stated amount on the bill and leave? The odds are very high that you will never see that waiter again, so why should you give him/her any more of your money?

Why is the tip related to the amount of the bill? There are pleny of hard-working people at Applebys or Fridays who will give you a level of service equal to the finest restaurants in New York or San Francisco. "Well", you might say "I am getting a dining experience at the 5 star restaurant which can never be duplicated at Applebys." But that is factored into the price of the food, not the amount of the tip you will pay.

It seems that anyone who works in an industry in which they make their money off of tips is "relying on the kindness of strangers" for their livelihood. That's crazy. Imagine a waiter who serves two tables (ordering identical dinners) with an equal level of service. One table tips $100; the other tips $50. Does that seem fair? Is there anything the waiter can do about it? No.

The Europeans have us beat on this: pay the waiter a decent wage (and benefits).
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07-07-2008 10:24 AM  
Couple of thoughts - David, I agree with you, but your analogies are a little off.  Clearly, you wouldn't pay the car salesman because he already receives compensation based on your sale. This is different from the wine scenarios, as the sales person selling the bottle (offering the glass, etc.), is doing so to retain/gain a client. His reward is your return to the store to spend more of your hard-earned money. I think there's a clear distinction between that and someone providing a dining/tasting experience. I received quite a few tips based on my "tight ass" (from ladies and men, ack!) when I was waiting tables during college, so I'm not going to complain. Based on that criteria, I'd be broke as hell now if I tried to wait tables :-D

Midlife - I'd view my sitting at the bar, drinking wine and eating a cheese tray as a dining/entertainment experience and tip accordingly. If my purpose was to go in and buy a bottle of wine and had one or two tastes, with some bread, I more than likely would not tip. Again, your goal should not be the 20% tip I'd leave; it's signing up another loyal customer that sadly can't say no to a well priced (*cough*) bottle of wine. Bread and tastes are a cost of sales factor. I would get irritated if I went into a retail store to buy something and was presented with a receipt that had a tip line. There's an implied guilt that goes along with zeroing that line out that really pisses me off.

Rothko - the big catch in your scenario is that the IRS factors tipping into a server's compensation. When I was ITB, there was an assumed 8% added to your earnings by our corproate office for tax reporting purposes, regardless of whether or not you hit it. Granted, I didn't work with anyone that made under 8%, but it's still an issue. That said, I am so sick and tired of seeing tip jars everywhere I go. At least Coldstone makes the scoopers sing for their money...
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